Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy or Girl
You can let your guard down entirely in a healthy relationship and let your wild side out. This means getting deep with your girl or guy about their sexual desires, intimate fantasies, and most profound parts of their heart. If you want to add more romance to your relationship and feel closer to your partner, these flirty sex questions to ask a guy or girl are just the activity to bring you to that next level.
Intimate Questions to Ask a Guy
Some people are turned on by intimate and emotional questions that help you understand your partner better. These are just the questions to invite intelligent and emotional conversation into your relationship. Especially for women, a few deep questions can prepare you for a night of fun in the bedroom. Here are a few intimate questions to ask your guy:
- Do you live in the past, present, or future?
- What part of my personality do you like the best?
- If you had to pick a new career, what would you do?
- What’s a bucket list activity you want to try?
- If we could travel anywhere right now, where would you pick and why?
- What is your favorite memory of us together?
- What’s a dream date you’d like to take me on?
- How often do you think about your childhood?
- What moments do you feel the most at peace?
- When do you feel the most confident?
- Do you ever feel protective of me?
- If you could have more of something in your life, what would it be? Money? Happiness? Love?
- When was the last time you cried?
- When was the last time you were afraid?
- What is something you could never forgive me for?
- Would you raise your child similar or different to how you were raised?
- What’s the most meaningful piece of advice you’ve been told?
- When was the last time you sang out loud?
- Do you have any reoccurring dreams?
- Describe your dream future.
Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy in Bed
Once you’ve delved deeper into your relationship using intimate questions, it’s time to turn up the heat. These questions are their own kind of foreplay that is sure to get your man hot and bothered.
- What’s the sexiest part of me? Show don’t tell.
- Where have you fantasized about us making love?
- How fast can you turn me on?
- What do I do in bed that turns you on?
- Do you prefer to be more dominant or submissive?
- Do you like when I talk dirty to you? (Whisper this in his ear if you’re feeling extra sexy)
- What type of lingerie would you like to see me in?
- How often would you like to have sex in a week?
- What sex toys would you want to try?
- Do you like to be rough or soft in the bedroom?
- What part of you do you like me to touch the most?
- What color of underwear do you like me to wear?
- What makeup do you like to see me wear?
- What’s your favorite position?
- How does it feel to orgasm in me?
- What’s the best kiss you’ve ever had?
- What was the hottest time we’ve had sex?
- What outfit that I wear turns you on the most?
- Do I make you nervous?
- Have you ever been turned on in public for me?
Deep Questions to Ask a Girl
Now it’s time for the guys to get some help. You can ask the above questions to your girl as well, but here are a few more deep questions to ask her to dig a bit deeper into her brain. Feel free to answer the questions you ask as well.
- What is your proudest accomplishment?
- What outfit makes you feel the sexiest?
- How can I make you feel protected?
- What’s your love language? (Bonus points if you take the test together)
- Do you get jealous?
- Would you trust me with a big secret?
- Do you prefer hand-holding or my arm on your lower back in public?
- What are your thoughts on PDA?
- Are you closer to your family or friends?
- Who would you ask for career advice?
- Who would you ask for relationship advice?
- What’s more important- money or happiness?
- What was your favorite movie growing up?
- Do you re-read books you love?
- Have you ever cried from a book? What was it about?
- What do I do that gives you butterflies?
- If you could change something about your life, what would it be?
- Do you prefer taking pictures, videos, or living in the moment?
- How can I help you relax after a stressful day?
- Do you prefer when I surprise you with a date or tell you the plan beforehand?
Sexually Intimate Questions to Ask a Girl
The sexually intimate questions you ask your wife or girlfriend should make her feel loved, turned on, and pursued. These questions will get her heart pumping and blood rushing for you.
- What’s your favorite act of foreplay?
- Does jealousy turn you on?
- How do you like me to kiss you?
- Does dancing turn you on?
- What do I do that makes you feel sexy?
- Where does my touch feel the best?
- How often do you touch yourself when I’m away?
- What do you think about when you’re alone?
- What body part of mine turns you on?
- When did you know you were ready to sleep with me?
- When were you first attracted to me?
- What non-sexual thing do I do that turns you on?
- Do you prefer to orgasm with or without sex toys?
- What position do you want to try?
- Do you think you’re very kinky?
- What do you like to do after sex?
- What turns you on more- massage or tickling?
- Have you ever had a sex dream? Was I in it?
- Would you go skinny dipping with me?
- Have you ever wanted to role-play?
Sexy and Intimate Would You Rather Questions
Would you rather questions are not just for the playground. Spice up your conversation with these sexy and intimate would you rather questions that are sure to open your partner up and turn you both on.
- Would you rather me or you be blindfolded?
- Would you rather have morning or nighttime sex?
- Would you rather take a bath or shower together?
- Would you rather read an erotic novel or watch an erotic film?
- Would you rather skinny dip in the ocean or a pool?
- Would you rather be tied up or handcuffed?
- Would you rather make love passionately or roughly?
- Would you rather buy me flowers or jewelry?
- Would you rather receive flowers or jewelry?
- Would you rather vacation in a tropical or cold climate with me?
- Would you rather make love with the lights on or off?
- Would you rather make love with music playing or music off?
- Would you rather make love with an article of clothing (Bra or knee-high socks for instance) on or off?
- Would you rather send me a dirty text or call?
- Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?
- Would you rather have sex at my place or yours?
- Would you rather light a candle or spray perfume on yourself to set the mood?
- Would you rather go to a casual or fancy restaurant on a date?
- Would you rather do physical or intellectual activity on a date?
- Would you rather sleep in or wake up early?
Sex Questions Game to Spice it up
Looking for even more exciting questions to further the flame of your relationship? Look no further than Open Mity games. Our Box of Burning Desires game is filled with kinky questions to add intrigue to your relationship. You may find something new that you or your partner likes or indulge in your tried-and-true fantasies once more.
More into intimate questions that build an emotional rather than physical connection? Try out Open Mity’s Meaningful Conversation Game. This card game is packed with questions that get down to what matters. Everything is laid out on the table, from passions to beliefs and values. Whatever your style of intimacy is, OpenMity has the game for you and your significant other.
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