Can Dirty talk increase sexual pleasure?
Dirty talk helps arouse and stimulate particular senses that are sometimes overlooked during sex. I have collected 409 dirty talk examples and quotes to get some inspiration for the erotic and naughty talks.
Dirty talks allow the body to come to terms with one’s thoughts, imagination, and hearing, hence a more erotic experience. Research shows that dirty talk increases a woman’s chances of having an orgasm. Different pathways trigger an orgasm in a woman’s body. When more than one area is stimulated, they magnify the effect in other areas, creating an orgasm reflex. Erotic talks stimulate some of these pathways located in the brain.
Stimulating the brain takes more than just saying the right words. Rapport also plays a key role. One way to establish rapport is by asking the right questions to help you get to know each other. This helps establish the flow of conversation while also keeping you both engaged. While the typical “getting to know you” questions might work when you’re just starting, the best way to get her heart (and mind) racing is to ask deep questions. Not only will these questions bring someone closer to you, but they will also set the stage for steamier conversations later on.
How Dirty Talk Stimulates the Brain
The brain sets off an individual’s sex drive and is considered a more powerful sexual organ than the male and female genital composition. Two areas of the brain are involved during intercourse- the imagination areas of the brain and the frontal cortex responsible for judgment and pleasure. Erotic talk arouses these two areas by letting partners verbalize thoughts and desires about sex; it can initiate foreplay hours or days before the actual act. “I can’t wait to feel the inside of you,” my husband said after a week-long business trip. The mere thought of it sent my mind into a frenzy the whole day before he arrived in the evening.
How Dirty Talk Improves a Relationship
While flirty talk helped my partner understand my body better, it also initiated a deeper level of trust. Trust is an essential aspect of any healthy relationship. The level of confidence between partners translates into intimacy during sex. I trusted him completely with my body as I could share my desires and feelings. The talks exposed us (in a good way) and caused us to be more vulnerable as we opened up about our most profound thoughts.
Before going further, I wanted you to introduce our game Sex Memory Game with naughty photos, which I made with my husband to bring some naughty time to our marriage.
Initiating an Erotic Talk with Your Partner
If you want this kind of talk to bear fruits- get the timing right. Most people find dirty talk embarrassing due to the already filthy definitions given in porn movies and other platforms. I was a little nervous about initiating dirty talk with my partner, but I was determined to initiate something new. So I decided to ask him about it and how he felt about it. The discussion helped us develop a game plan, phrases, and words we could use during the dirty talks. We also decided who would initiate the conversation as it was somewhat uncomfortable for both of us at the beginning.
Check also: 50 sexy questions + 30 foreplay and 28 sex ideas
Dirty talk examples and dirty text messages
Dirty text messages for him – dirty talking to your boyfriend quotes
- I just love feeling your body enjoying everything I do.
- I need to feel you inside me.
- I want to feel you control me from behind tonight, making me moan…
- Can you get off early today? I need to see you. In our bed. Naked. Right now.🌟
- Tonight you are not allowed to cum until I say so.
- I can’t stop sucking on lollipops today for some reason…
- I plan to tease your dick with my tongue this evening, making it throb with pleasure…
- I love teasing you because I love seeing how much you want me.🍒
- I long to dominate you in cowgirl, making you surrender to the pleasure…🔥
- I hope your day is as nice as my butt.🍑
- I’m going to make your dick lose control, using my lips and tongue to drive it wild… 🌺
- I think about you a little more than I should.
- This evening, I want to show you how good it feels when I’m in control…🖤
- Feel free to use kisses as a method to shut me up anytime.
- I’ll please your dick this evening, making it feel every bit of my desire…
Check 409 dirty talk examples.
Dirty talk about blow jobs:
- I may have a dirty mouth, but I can do great things with it.
- My biggest turn-on is turning you on.
- You taste like sugar.
- Is that what you want? Tell me more. 🡨Encourage your partner to communicate with you. People tend to be more open when they’re extremely horny.
- Do you like the way I taste you?
- Tell me if you want me to go faster or slower
- Do you like it when I use my hands as well?
- Do you want me to go deeper, to take more of you?
- Tell me how much you want to release
- Tell me how much you crave my forbidden tease.
- Do you like it when I use my sinful hands to torment you?
Check 409 Dirty talk examples and phrases
Erotic Questions in a Game
A fun and easy way of initiating erotic talk would be through the game.
We have made the “Box of Burning Desires” game which includes:
170 sexy questions for him and her in a sexy game, like:
- Do I prefer to be told what to do in bed or to be in control?
- What is my favorite part of your body?
- Do I want you to talk dirty during sex?
- Do I like being dominated?
- Would I ever want to have a threesome with a partner of the same sex?
- The rest of the 170 sexy questions find in this link.
- When you wake me up with your tongue. Mmmm…
- I’m going to drain your balls tonight.
- I will make your dick hard in public places so that you can punish me later.
- I’m eager for us to drive each other wild… in a 69. 🌊
- Tease me until I am begging for it.
- I’m longing for the intimacy of you controlling the pace, taking me in missionary… 🌹
- Tonight, I want to see your dick beg for attention from my pussy. 🌟
- A great way to start foreplay is to give me a sexy kiss.
- Do you know how much I want you?
- The rain is not the only reason I am wet today…
- I can barely concentrate; I just keep thinking about you grabbing me and taking me.
- Grab my ass and give me a sexy kiss.
- Get naked! I got a plan.
- I can’t wait to feel you inside me.
- I know I am naughty. And I know you love it.
- I need your body pressed against mine. Your warmth. Your smile. Your fingers wrapped around the curves of mine. The taste of your kiss. I need you.
- “I don’t want to be a sweetheart. I want to be the fucking love of your life” Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
- I am not wearing any panties.
- Making you horny and making you smile are my two favorite things.
Related: 28 foreplay and 30 sexy ideas
Dirty Talk During Sex examples
- Yes… your touch is so tantalizing. Continue.
- I want to feel every inch of your dick, teasing my pussy.
- Mmm… I love the way you make me lose control. Keep going.
- Watch how I move on you, savor every moment.
- Whisper your dirty desires; let me fulfill every one.
- I’m coming. Keep doing that!
- I love how your dick fills my pussy, driving me wild.
- With BDSM elements:
- You belong to me; lose yourself in my seductive control.
- I’m here to serve you; use me for your pleasure.
- I’m at your mercy; dominate me completely.
- I can’t wait for your dick to dominate my pussy.
- I desire your dick to make my pussy yield to its power.
Dirty Talk Text Messages for Her (Dirty Talking to Your Girlfriend Quotes):
- “I am not going anywhere. The only time I’ll let go of your hand is to grab your ass.” JmStorm
- It’s not that I’m horny all the time. It’s just that you’re always fucking sexy.
- I think about you a little more than I should.
- Life is too short not to do it dirty.
- Do you know how much I want you?
- I just love feeling your body enjoying everything I do.
- I just want you to be happy and naked.
- Your ass looks lonely without my hands on it.
- I am always in a mood for a bit of naughty fun with you.
- I want to f*ck you so hard right now. Damn, autocorrect! I mean, good morning!
- I have a deep desire to know how much your body can take. To let those sensations take control of you. To have you exposed and bare. To just make you feel and not resist.
- I need your body pressed against mine. Your warmth. Your smile. Your fingers wrapped around the curves of mine. The taste of your kiss. I need you.
- To be your friend was all I ever wanted. To be your lover was all I ever dreamed of.
- I am crazy for you.
- I need you in my arms.
- I want to hold you close skin on skin and let our heartbeats have a conversation.
- I wanna feel you. Taste you. Touch you.
- You make me smile… and also super horny…
- I love when touching turns into grabbing. Soft lips into passionate kisses. Your heartbeat getting faster and faster.
- I did fall in love with you for a reason. There is no one like you.
Box of Burning Desires game is also full of 100 foreplay and sex ideas, like:
- Your partner has to give you a massage of the inner thighs, followed by passionate kisses around your erogenous zone, while you are blindfolded. (foreplay)
- As you lay on your back, your partner has to tie your hands behind you and tease you all over with kisses and sumptuous licks. (foreplay)
- Tell each other what you like about your sex life. Give your partner one compliment about how good they are in bed. (foreplay)
- Play with yourself in front of your partner. He/she has to tell you exactly what to do. (foreplay)
- The typical 69 position, where one partner is on top, can feel a bit awkward. But by lying sideways, you can both get comfortable and enjoy the process and feelings together. (Sex idea)
- Upgrade your doggy-style with a pillow and some adult toys. This is the easiest, hands-free doggy-style variation out there. The woman props a pillow under her crotch and positions a vibrator to hit her clit perfectly as the man thrusts. The man can also lie on top of woman, gently fondling her breasts. (Sex idea)
- The rest of the 100 foreplay and sex moves find in this link.
36 little prepared sexy scenarios, and also blindfolds included. Enjoy!
Dirty Talk Text Messages and Quotes
Our minds and bodies warmed up to the new trick pretty fast. Sexting was more exciting as I didn’t have to be conscious of saying dirty words out loud. People are comfortable with different forms of dirty talks. There are those who prefer talking dirty using texts while others prefer actual talks. In fact, dirty talk out of the bedroom – messages and quotes, helps determine your partner’s interest in the conversation. Women, unlike men, are more difficult to decipher; sometimes they want you to whisper in their ear how much you want them and other times they long for sexting. It’s up to you to determine what sets her off.
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