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Make Valentine’s Day 2024 an experience your lover will never forget with these sexy Valentine’s Day gifts. Valentine’s Day is the holiday of love and affection. It’s an opportunity to show your partner how much they mean to you. And what’s a more exciting way to show your appreciation than with sex? Sexual activity strengthens the bond between you and your lover, and it’s a fun and pleasurable experience you’ll both enjoy. To make this year even more
memorable, why not give your significant other sexy gifts for Valentine’s Day? In this post, we’re sharing our top recommendations for sexy Valentine’s Day gifts, so you can get your blood pumping in the bedroom this February.
Why Do We Celebrate Valentine’s Day?
What we now associate with an opportunity to indulge in hot sex and seek the best naughty Valentine’s gifts, was once a solely religious holiday. Valentine’s Day is named after Saint Valentine, a Roman Catholic Priest. During the third century, Saint Valentine married Roman soldiers in secret Christian ceremonies after a ban on marriage was imposed by the Pagans. Upon the revelation of his crime, Valentine was imprisoned. Before his execution on February 14th, the saint wrote a note to his jailor’s daughter, signing it “from your Valentine ”. Today, Saint Valentine symbolizes the importance of love. We celebrate his noble pursuit by showing our loved ones what they mean to us on the anniversary of his death.
Sexy Valentines ideas
Spa Night: Turn your home into a spa with massages and relaxation.
Stargazing: Spend the evening stargazing and sharing dreams.
Love Letters: Write heartfelt love letters to each other.
Dance Night: Dance to your favorite love songs at home.
Cooking Class: Take a couples cooking class together.
Wine or Chocolate Tasting: Have a wine-tasting evening with a selection of fine wines or enjoy an assortment of gourmet chocolates.
Candlelit Bath: Share a romantic candlelit bath.
Memory Lane: Create a photo album of your favorite memories together.
Game Night: Play your favorite board or card games.
Karaoke Night: Sing love songs together at home.
Personalized Playlist: Create a playlist of meaningful songs to your relationship.
Journaling Together: Start a journal together and share your thoughts.
Memory Jar: Create a jar filled with notes of your favorite memories and things you love about each other.
Erotic Dancing: Perform a sensual dance for each other.
Enjoy a list of 50 ideas that are more on the adventurous and playful side for couples looking to explore some kinkier aspects of their relationship. Please remember that all activities should be consensual, safe, and respectful of each other’s boundaries and comfort levels.
Blindfolds: Experiment with sensory play using blindfolds.
Light Bondage: Try using silk ties or soft handcuffs.
Mutual Masturbation: Watch each other for a visual treat.
Bedroom Games: Play adult games designed for couples.
25 Sexy Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas
Centuries on, Valentine’s Day is an occasion to indulge in the sensual and stimulating wonders of love. We show our lovers how much they mean to us through engaging in physical activity with one another. Giving sexy gifts for Valentine’s Day will not only turn your partner on when they unwrap their present, but they promise a fun time in the bedroom on February 14th and beyond. Here are our top picks for naughty Valentine’s gifts for him and her, as well as the sexiest Valentine’s Day gifts you can both enjoy.
Sexy Valentines Day Ideas – Gifts for Her
Show her how special she is by providing an unforgettable night of sex. Here are a some of the sexiest Valentine’s Day gift ideas that can help heat things up.
1. Bring her sexual fantasy to life ($3.99+)
We all have sexual fantasies. Whether it’s sleeping with a policeman or getting naughty with a well-known pop-culture figure, we’d be lying if we said we hadn’t fantasized about sexual experiences with particular people or in certain situations. Bringing these fantasies to life for your lover is the sexiest Valentine’s Day gift you can give. Dress up, role play, and experiment with new personalities and activities to get your lover going. If you find that it’s not easy to open up to each other, our Sexual Fantasies game will be a great starting point. Combine it with the Massage date night box for couples.
Wearing sexy lingerie increases self-confidence, making sex more enjoyable. Did you know it’s proven that wearing matching underwear boosts self-esteem, making you feel more confident and powerful? And we all know that feeling assured in the bedroom results in a better sexual experience. Giving sexy lingerie as a Valentine’s Day gift not only promises incredible sex, but it will make your lover feel their best, and you’ll get to enjoy watching them strut around in barely-there lingerie. What could be better?
3. Vibrator ($15 +)
Let’s be honest. Relying one-hundred percent on your body for sexual pleasure is old-fashion (and pretty boring). Introducing a mechanical sex toy in the bedroom can heighten the experience and increase pleasure. If you’ve never used a sex toy with your partner before, we recommend starting with something simple such as a vibrator. This small toy is simple to use but has a big impact. Trust us; sex will never be the same once you introduce toys into the bedroom. Make things even more enjoyable by purchasing a vibrator with dual controls or an app that lets your significant other take the reins.
Naughty Valentine’s gifts for him
If you’re after naughty Valentine’s gifts for him to prove how much you appreciate the man in your life, we’ve got you covered.
4. Blowjob scratch card ($7.99)
A blowjob is at the top of most men’s list of desires. Being given a blow job not only feels incredible, but for many men, it unleashes their inner desire to feel dominant and attractive. If someone is willing to please them so intently, it must mean this person cares about their pleasure and experience. Giving a blowjob scratch card is a fun and interactive naughty Valentine’s gift for him that he’ll definitely appreciate.
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5. Customized boxers ($19.69)
If you’re searching for a comic present that sticks with the sexy theme but isn’t overtly sexual, customized boxers are the perfect naughty Valentine’s gift for him. Write a cheeky slogan on the front and enjoy watching your man strut around the bedroom in them.
6. Sex coupons (free)
Similarly to a blowjob scratch card, sex coupons are a gift that keeps on giving. Keep things steamy in your sex life long-term by giving your lover sex coupons that he can cash in on those evenings when he’s feeling horny.
7. Bring his sexual fantasy to life ($28+)
Bringing a sexual fantasy to life is enjoyable for all genders. As already mentioned above, it’s one of the best sexual Valentine’s Day gifts for her, and it’s an equally brilliant naughty Valentine’s Day gift for him. Ask your partner about their deepest fantasy with a naughty Tic Tac To the Bedroom game for couples and bring it to life on Valentine’s Day.
Sexiest Valentine’s Day gifts for you both to enjoy
Valentine’s Day is about celebrating the love you and your partner share together. Show them you value your relationship by giving a present you can both enjoy using.
8. Handcuffs And Blindfold Set ($22.50)
Handcuffs and blindfolds are synonymous with wild sex. Spice things up in the bedroom by taking turns handcuffing, blindfolding, and pleasuring each other. Your lover’s senses will be heightened, and they’ll lose themselves in the sexual pleasure you provide. A handcuff and blindfold set is one of the sexiest gifts you can give your lover and something you can continue enjoying in your sex life.
9. Naughty Foreplay Dice ($14.45)
Inject an element of mystery into your night of sexual promiscuity. Using foreplay dice leaves it up to fate to decide what you’ll explore in the bedroom. Throw the dice, see what it lands on and reenact the combination the dice decides. Combine it with Surprise Date Cards for couples.
10. Steamy Anniversary Gift Box ($34.50)
If you have an anniversary coming up, or you’ve been with your partner a long time, the Steamy Anniversary Gift Box can encourage you to keep things sexy in the bedroom. Inside you’ll find the Love Battleship Game that will help you re-explore your partner’s desires, along with a blindfold, feather tickler, and a scratch-off love card. Reconnect with your lover in new ways on Valentine’s Day with the help of the Streamy Anniversary Gift Box.
11. Massage Candle ($29.90)
Massaging your lover’s body is a guaranteed way to turn them on. Make the experience even more sensual by using a scented massage candle. Light the candle to create ambiance and use the warm wax to moisturize their skin. The physical sensation will excite them, while the calming atmosphere will help them relax, creating an enjoyable and calming sexual experience. If you want to buy a sexy gift for Valentine’s Day, but you don’t want a high-energy or demanding item, a massage candle is the ideal sexy Valentine’s Day gift.
12. Sex Bucket List ($3.90)
Whether your relationship is new or you’ve been together for a while, you can create a sex bucket list to add interest to your sex life. Discuss with your partner the sexual activities you’d like to try and make a note of these. Not only will this help you better understand their sexual preferences, but it gives you something to look forward to as your relationship progresses. Write these items down and gift the list to your lover on Valentine’s Day, they won’t be able to resist ticking them off.
13. Sex Toy Storage Box ($140)
A sex toy storage box is a great accompaniment to other gifts or on its own. Purchase a sex toy storage box to keep your Sexy Valentine’s gifts in, or use it to store the adult toys and games you already own. The classy yet inconspicuous exterior means the box will tie in with your furnishings whilst being a practical place to store your sexual items. The addition of a coded lock and plush interior means your favorite sex toys will be safe and secure.
14. Sex Games ($3.90-$47.50)
For those seeking interactive and energetic sex gifts for Valentine’s Day, sex board games are the perfect option. Make game night erotic by playing a sexy board or card game. Pick from romance, fantasy, or desire and find the gift tailored to you: whether you’re a heterosexual, gay, or lesbian couple, there’s a sex game for you to enjoy. Nothing is sexier than a bit of competition. See if you can win against your partner or if they’ll conquer you in the bedroom instead.
15. Never Have I Ever (free)
Getting to know your partner’s sexual preferences and experiences can be a huge turn-on. But if you’re new to the relationship, you might feel shy sharing your sexual history. Never Have I Ever is a classic game that requires minimal effort but facilitates candid sharing. If the prospect of creating your own questions is daunting, you can get question prompts, so all you need to focus on is your lover.
16. Dirty Valentines Day Card ($6.99)
If you’re searching for a small token of love, why not give your significant other a dirty Valentine’s Day card? Pick a card with a cheeky slogan on the front and watch their eyes light up as they open the envelope. Make things even more erotic by picking a card with scratch-off gifts. Not only will they get to enjoy your flirtatious card, but you’re promising them sexual pleasure at the same time.
17. Love Box Messaging Device ($25-$90)
Long-distance relationships can be difficult, especially when it comes to keeping the spark alive. Lovebox is a connected message device designed to send heartfelt messages to loved ones far away, but we know it can be used for something a little naughtier. Use the Lovebox to send a cheeky message to your long-distance lover, or purchase the color and photo version to send a sexy image. When your message arrives on their Lovebox, they won’t be able to resist calling you up for some hot and steamy phone sex.
18. Sex Cheques ($13.79)
If cheques are more your style than coupons, we’ve got you covered. Put the power in your lover’s hands and let them check their dirty deeds whenever the desire strikes. Not only is this a fun addition to February 14th, but you can continue to use them throughout the year to keep the spark alive and let your partner feel powerful in the bedroom.
19. Position Of The Day Book ($10.47)
Are you feeling like switching things up in the bedroom? Is February 14th an opportunity to show your partner some new moves? Experimenting in the bedroom is not only fun, but it’s a great way to reignite your sex life.
Why not give them a Position Of The Day book and make every evening a sexual occasion? Using this book as inspiration, you can experiment with several new sex positions and make every night feel like the honeymoon phase.
20. Cum rags ($9.65+)
Although it might seem like a comical gift, a cum rag can come in handy in the bedroom. Purchase his and hers cum rags or embroidered towels and put your sexy Valentine’s Day gift to use by making your way to the bedroom.
21. Erotic Wall Art ($44.71+)
Turn the heat up in your home with some sexy home interiors. Nothing gets us in the mood like images of hot sex, so why not hang these in your home to encourage your lover’s libido at all times? Give your partner an erotic photograph or piece of wall art for them to hang pride of place in the home.
22. Edible Gifts ($50)
One thing that’s guaranteed to make any night in the bedroom more exciting is the addition of food. Pick a tasty treat for your partner to eat off your body (we recommend melted chocolate and strawberries), or decorate your edible gift with a naughty message. For example, pick your lover’s favorite chocolates and have something sexy decorated on the top. When they lift the lid, they’ll crack a smile and might even take you to the bedroom to show their appreciation.
23. Cup with a sexy slogan.
A hot drinks receptacle might not sound like the sexiest Valentine’s Day gift, but when it’s got a flirty slogan on, your partner won’t be able to help crack a smile. Write something funny yet sensual on the front and remind your lover of how sexy you find them when they’re sipping their morning coffee.
24. Kama Sutra Jar ($10.45)
Using a Kama Sutra jar is a fun way to spice up your sex life and inject an element of mystery. Taking turns, you and your partner pick a pose from the jar before heading to the bedroom.
25. Kama Sutra 8 Ball ($82.80)
Upgrade your Kama Sutra jar and invest in an 8 Ball for you and your lover to play with. When you’re feeling aroused, you can shake the ball and watch your next sex position flash up on the screen.
From the outside, this toy looks like a regular 8 ball and can sit inconspicuously around the house until you’re ready to get frisky.
Valentine’s Day is a chance to show your partner how much they mean to you. And nothing facilitates a bond and promotes enjoyment like sexual activity. This Valentine’s Day, add interest to your bedroom activities with these sexy Valentine’s Day gifts. Whether you’re choosing sexy Valentine Day gifts for her, naughty Valentine’s Day gifts for him, or sexy presents for you both to enjoy, make this February 14th a day you’ll never forget.
In this blog post, we’ve shared 25 of the sexiest Valentine’s Day gifts. For more bedroom inspiration, visit the Openmity blog or browse our range of sex products.
Married to Charles, mother of two. I work in finance, but currently I’m on maternity leave. I’ll be writing about what it’s like to be in a relationship both as a woman and a mother, while at the same time developing my career. And also, of course, about some of the fun games that we’ve thought of.
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