Slow music, gentle hands, comfort, and relaxation? Sounds good and feels good, but…imagine if you are the one doing the sensual massage, touching the silky skin and erotic parts of your partner’s body. Sexy, isn’t it? I loooove giving a sensual massage to my husband, it’s just a great feeling seeing him enjoying it. And honestly, I also adore receiving it. Sharing a sensual massage with your lover is more than just relaxation, it sooth away the stress, sinking into sensual pleasure and intimately connecting with your lover. The skills and idea you learn with our couple’s board games consisting of Sex Memory Game with erotic photos and sensual photos are also powerful tools to increase intimacy, seduce and arouse your lover. With different photos on each card, you’ll never run out of ideas. Actually one of the game cards also instructs to give your partner an erotic massage.
Keep the passion alive in your relationship
When you know how to give a sensual massage, you have an excellent way to keep the passion alive in your relationship. I know over time, intimacy and passion fade because of the daily grind in many relationships, work pressures, money worries, and other demands (you name it) that distract from the pleasure of having that special someone in your lives. But it is easy to melt away the worries of the day and renew the passion with a gentle touch. By giving a sensual massage to your partner, you not only recreate the intensity of the early days of your relationship, but you also reaffirm that you want to spend time with them and give them your attention and efforts. via GIPHY Knowing how to give a sensual massage is a wonderful sexy gift for any partner. Whether you give a massage simply to help them relax after a hard day or incorporate it into your foreplay, your touch and attention will be more than enough to let them know you care and desire them.
Sensual massage tips summary:
- Start with the massage of the inner section of the palm gently gives a wonderful feeling!
- Tap your fingers slowly from his navel down to the more erogenous zone.
- Continue with a sensual foot massage.
- Don’t just stick on your hands for massaging, use your full body as a weapon there
- Now behind the knees, the skin there is super skinny and brimming with super-sensitive nerve endings.
- more details in OpenMity article below
Stimulate the five senses for passionate sensual massage
All that we’ve written so far covers why a sensual massage is such a wonderful activity for couples. Let’s get on the how. When preparing for a sensual massage, it is of great importance to stimulate the five senses for maximum effect.
Sight
Lighting is crucial to creating a romantic ambiance. So close the curtains, turn off the harsh lights, and light up some candles to set the mood. The bed will be the center of activity so it should be neat and tidy. Another requirement for your bed is it can’t be too soft. For an erotic sensual massage to be effective you’ll need resistance opposing the gentle pressure you’ll be applying to certain points of your partner’s body. If the bed is too soft, you’ll need to ask him or her to move to the floor with layers of blankets for a cushion.
Smell
Use the power of aromatherapy to set a relaxing mood for your erotic sensual massage. Essential oils don’t only provide soothing smells but act as aphrodisiacs as well. Let the smell permeate the room before your partner enters. To make your erotic sensual massage even more special you can use aroma oils – in calming scents of fragrant lotion to use on his or her body.
OpenMity massage oil gift set has a fantastic sensual smell to set you in the mood.
Sound
You can also add soft, gentle music for this special time. A lot of music is available to set this type of mood. Music adds dimension to the experience of an erotic sensual massage so don’t ignore it. Still in doubt of what song to choose to set the mood right? Don’t worry, we have compiled a list of best sex rock songs to put you and your partner in a sexy and energetic mood.
Remember to whisper some dirty and naughty words into your partner’s ears while giving a sensual massage. This will make the atmosphere between you both even more intimate and the massage even more sensual. I know it can be intimidating to know what to say and how to say it. Click here to get general tips about dirty talk. The Box of Burning Desires Game will give you ideas on dirty questions:
Taste
Have something ready for both of you to drink or eat before, during or after the activity. Massage takes a lot from the giver as it is a physical activity, so take mini-breaks during your sensual massage. Have some water or wine and fruits to refresh you and your partner.
Touch
Make sure that the nails are trimmed and your skin is slightly warm, not cold or rough. Your goal is to make your partner feel good by giving him or her that extra special touch that is not only felt superficially but can be felt deep within the body.
Quick Practical Tips On How To Give A Sensual Massage
Hot bath
Start the experience, by letting your partner take a hot bath, this will help in moving you both in a relaxed mood. Allowing undress as he or she is comfortable before lying down on a comfortable surface. You can place a towel across the hips, below the tailbone so that the body is not fully nude. This creates both calming and sensual results.
Massage Oil or Massage oil Candle
Don’t be too hasty when applying oil. You don’t want to put it directly on your partner’s body. Instead, place a generous amount on your hands, rub them together (to let it warm up), and then lay your hands on your partner. The massage candle is a great way to have romantic foreplay and also for beginners if you want to play with temperatures in bed. Once the massage candle melts, it turns into nice, warm massage oil. If you compare it with standard massage oil – it’s already warm, so unlike having cold oil on your skin, the massage candle oil is more pleasant and helps to relax muscles. In addition, they also smell good – which sets up even more of a romantic mood around you.
Massage candles’ main features:
- Melts to complete liquid
- Absorbs into the skin
- Not for a pain play, more for relaxation and some light fun.
Check out our article on how to use massage candle for more information. Me and my husband decided to make the massage candles even more romantic by adding only safe ingredients into the candle and also a light and nice flavor to it. Our Mmm! Massage Candle tastes like wild strawberries so you can get wild and nibble, kiss, lick, and explore every part of your partner.
A light touch at the beginning
Keep your strokes light, especially at the beginning. While kneading is great for certain types of massage, your touch for a sensual massage should usually be much gentler. Aim to tickle, tease, and arouse – your touch should naturally stay light. Use your thumb and move it on circular motion across your partner’s back.
Kisses
Remember that your hands aren’t the only tools available, you have all the different parts of your body at your disposal. Stroke your partner’s back with your hands, then follow up with a line of kisses up and down the spine. One of the greatest things you can do to keep the intimacy alive in any relationship is to kiss each other a lot, passionate and full of desired kisses. Our Sex Memory Game also stressed the importance of kisses. One of the game cards instructs you to sensually and erotically kiss your partner’s ear lobes, neck, breasts, and other erotic parts
Explore your partner’s body
Also, remember to explore your partner’s body. Don’t restrict yourself to massaging hot spots like the neck, shoulders, and back; or commonly known as erogenous zones. Try gently nibbling the ears, kissing the wrists, or blowing on the back of the neck. Of course, don’t neglect the known arousal areas.
6 Tips on How To Make a Sensual Massage Super-Hot
- Massage the inner section of the palm gently gives a wonderful feeling! Now on your partner’s palm, make circles using the pads of your fingers, slowly making your way to the most sensitive area being the center. The buildup is definitely worth it… Along the edge of the pinkie, run your fingertips up and down the part connected to your partner’s hand. {Hint for ladies}: To make it even more intimate lick and suck his fingers – this will drive him crazy for you.
- Tap your fingers slowly from his navel to the base of his penis. Then, circle his belly button with your fingertips, make the circles bigger and more so as you approach his outer abdomen. Speed and pressure should be well adjusted based on his reaction to avoid tickling him as your goal is to elicit moans out of him and not laughter. Hot! Hot! Hot! Isn’t it? {Hint for gentelmen}: apply the same technique to your lady, believe me, the area around the belly button and down below to our intimate parts is really sensitive and erogenous. {you are welcome }
- Continue with a sensual foot massage. Start at the ankle and slowly rub the oil down over the top of the foot. Then rub the pad in circular motions with your thumbs. Use strong pressure to avoid tickling your partner.
- As mentioned before – don’t just stick on your hands for massaging, use your full body as a weapon there {Hint for ladies} – use your breasts for a gentle massaging his back followed by kisses on his ears and neck. {Hint for gentlemen} When massaging your lady’s back, slowly lay on top of her and massage her vagina with your penis, and surely complement it with sensual kisses on her neck, back and more… a perfect combination. This is also one of the activities instructed in our Sex Memory Game printable version.
- Now behind the knees, the skin there is super skinny and brimming with super-sensitive nerve endings. Your partner should lie on stomach, slow gently scratch being each knee to heat up the skin a little before the movement of your tongue back and forth in circles across the crevice.
- End with a well-adjusted pressure massage on your partner’s inner thighs. This area is sensitive and erogenous for most of the men and women, so hard to get wrong with this move. To make it even more intimate – complement your massage with kisses and licks. Continue your massaging, licking and kissing up to the most sensitive area of a humans body and I now leave your imagination on how you would want to continue your super hot intimate moment together :*
The key to an intimate massage is to keep it light and fun and be open to experimentation and exploration. Try to tickle each other in new and different ways, and try to make each other feel laugh, sigh, moan, and scream in pleasure. A true sensual massage is all about exploration of one’s feelings and senses. Therefore, the most important thing you can bring to this experience is an open mind. You are here to explore each other’s boundaries and feelings and the best way you can achieve this by being true to yourself and trusting your partner as much as you can. A sensual massage is one of the best sexy gifts you can give your partner, an experience even made more special because someone who loves and deeply cares for her is giving it. Do it right and it will be an experience your loved one will never forget.
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Aggie
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Married to Charles, mother of two. I work in finance, but currently I’m on maternity leave. I’ll be writing about what it’s like to be in a relationship both as a woman and a mother, while at the same time developing my career. And also, of course, about some of the fun games that we’ve thought of.
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